Today I was presented with an interesting question: If you could get a “do over” in life, would you take it?
This is probably a question I’m going to be thinking about for a while. Right now my short answer is “for some of it, yes”. Would I choose a different path in life? Probably. Maybe a path that hasn’t been as long as the one I’ve been on. If I had complete control of “do over”, I would change decisions I’ve made, revisit some places, unvisit other places, acquaint myself with people I haven’t seen in a very long time that I’d love to see and “unacquaint” myself with people I did meet but wish I hadn’t and really wish not to see ever again.
Then there are the things I would never change: the person I chose for a spouse, my daughter, my siblings, even with all their quirks and issues. And I’d keep the cats. I wouldn’t change the house I live in. It may be small, but it’s cozy and it’s more than a “house”–it’s a “home”. I also wouldn’t change the town I live in, nor the state or country. East Brookfield may be the youngest town in the Commonwealth (and one of the smallest), but I think that’s cool and I love small towns. I literally live in “Podunk”! Massachusetts is the ideal New England town. It’s right smack in the middle and we have everything: mountains, lakes, oceans, forests, farms. You can drive from one end of the state to the other in two to three hours. And America. Don’t get me started on America. Where else can you get every day entertaining political satire than the home of Donald Trump and Elizabeth Warren? Gotta give it up to their love-hate relationship.
Since there are no real “do overs” in life, I’ll keep the one I have and live it out to the best of my ability.